We are the funny people who cannot distinguish what personal is too personal. You may laugh at this but others may look it seriously. I bet you that many agree with me that spouses arguing online is a serious matter. Some exposed almost everything for the reason to capture attention thus a few marriages failed.
Sharing stories at times are sometimes necessary but bad mouthing will break the relationship as they are not as magical as they seemed. It is better to stop doing it forever and give a second chance at happinesss.
Tuan Mohd Rosli, wife and daughter Nur Atiqah (left) at Big Ben, London
A friend of mine Tuan Mohd Rosli when asked, told me that one of his marriage recipes which i guess everyone should follow said, "0ur relationship is filled with laughters from the beginning. Yes, from the start and this does not mean that I have captured the best girl in town but the lasting of our laughters are due to both of us who chosed to look beyond the imperfections in us."
There are situations when revealing parts of their identites or secrets would do them more harm than good. It is an unhealthy action revealling all behind-the-scene stories of their spouses when people close to them such as the in-laws, would not accept it.
Well, I too write about personal matters, but the amount of personal facts I provide are managed cautiously and I sometimes do write more on my affairs but never share something that is secret. I write what I like to share as long as I am aware of what I am telling and I know how to approach my well-mannered readers well. I always have in mind that I have two types of secrets and they are the one that I want to keep by myself and the other one I do not have the gut to let it out.
Due to the fact that I want to make my communications as lively as possible (with some limitations) by sharing a bit of my experiences, such communication with readers is necessary as to give them some feelings of friendliness.
No matter what it is, my private life is private and I am happy when it is private as my privacy is mine. Whenever I am writing, I always be mindful of the four things surrounding me regarding my life and they are: public, confidential, private, and secret.
Well readers, are you holding on to some secrets and if you do, please tell us in the comments below the reasons you are holding them.
(This site is our site and the stories belong to us. Everyone has a story to tell and in sharing we find healing. I expect this story will give hope a good chance to grow in your heart. Your wisdom and judgement are as good as mine.)
Playing For Change, La Bamba
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